These are reasonable desires! I've had couples come to our sessions so excited to tell me that they are experiencing these changes in their relationship. It is common to have couples I've worked with for a while come in for a monthly session and say, "We can't remember when we last had a disagreement."
One of the most common problems I see with relationships is when couples wait too long to get couples counseling. They put off counseling so long that the resentment builds up and reaches a boiling point. Don't let this happen to your relationship. If your partner asks you to go to marriage counseling, why wouldn't you give it a try? Don't you owe it to yourself, your partner and your children to try everything?
If there has been an affair, you and your partner have some issues to sort through. I hope that you will realize through some soul searching that your relationship is worth saving. There are stages of recovery from an affair. I can help guide you.
With my help, many couples are learning to communicate at a deeper level than ever before. Let's talk, so that we can make this happen for you. Call 925-289-9211 to schedule a session at my Walnut Creek, California office.
After all...It's never too late to live happily ever after!